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【校长】给家长的三条重要建议 需谨记

时间:2018-7-9 19:31:53 阅读: 次

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建议一 孩子就是父母的镜子,镜子里看到的就是自已。

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建议二 孩子是教出来的,不是说出来的,更不是担心出来的。


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建议三 教育孩子最忌讳“急”。好孩子是家长“熬”出来的,不是急出来的。


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